People Who Steal Your Energy

Each of us has an amazing power center within our mind and body. Your energy is creative like your Father in the heavens. However, unlike your Father, you live in a world or polar opposites. Some people, friends, and even beloved family have never learned how to recharge their own batteries from the light of God. So, these same people seek out empathic people as close allies so that they can easily receive from these unsuspecting souls what they need for themselves.

People Who Steal Your Energy

People Who Steal Your Energy aren’t necessarily dressed in black and have big incisors. These people, however, are the ones who call you on the phone and ask you how you’re doing for about 3 minutes. Then, before you know it, you’re talking about their problems and how you are the only one who can help! If you suspect you’re in one or several relationships like this, read on.

I was 44 before I realized that I desperately needed people to tell me how wonderful, caring and sweet I was. I had more good friends then anyone actually deserves. I tended to each individual friendship like a beautiful flower in a garden. However, afterward, I was exhausted all of the time and most times in bad health. I didn’t realize I had saved none of my vital energy for myself.

Also, beyond having too many people in my life, I had a few people who required much more than they gave back to my life. These are known as energy vampires, because they intentionally or unintentionally use your energy in large scale for themselves, and you let them!

1. If you are tired soon after entering into a conversation with a person, they are probably not a good energy match for you;
2. If you spend time thinking about how you hope “fill in the blank with a name” doesn’t call today, you should rethink the relationship;
3. Biggest Lesson: If your spirit doesn’t specifically know the reason you are caring so much for this person, they are probably not from the spirit of God at all. 

My Story about People Who Steal Your Energy

As a Practitioner of Hypnotherapy

Learning to take your energy back from the people who steal it so quickly, wielding it away, becomes a chore and takes precise handling. You can’t just go through your friends list and just start deleting. You must confront the energy and discuss your needs. If the person is a good friend, he or she will understand your need and try to be better. If that person dismisses you and your feelings, you haven’t lost anything at all from your life. 

• When is the last time you thought about your fragile spirit? 
• Have you been taking care of your soul with quiet time, 
• Have you been gifting yourself with moments of gratitude and reflection, exercise, and eating properly? 

After I moved to Florida to take care of my aging mother, I admit, it was easier to manage distancing myself from the people who took the majority of my time without giving anything back. I was too far away for anyone to complain. Without too much time, many of my friends lost consistent touch. I became Facebook buddies with them, instead. However, the goods ones stayed active in my life. For most people, a move is not possible.

Since I have been in Florida, I have not made many good friends. I realize that having one good friend is actually enough for me. I also got married, so that one good friend is built into my physical and mental framework. I actually do believe my mate is my best friend. Fortunately, too, one of my sisters is my dearest friend in the world. This makes life easier. 

But, still we all must make priorities without time and friendships. For instance, yesterday, my mother called and needed me to help her at her apartment. Of course, I’m going to help her. She my precious mother who loves me more than life. I will always do for her first, then deal with my friends second. This goes the same for my marriage.

Then, secondary people in our lives must also have some time; otherwise, you will end up isolated. I do believe that life holds the possibility of having close allies and friends who are not the primary people in your life. My problem was that I didn’t know the difference. 

Now, I prioritize, because I must. Otherwise will literally become sick and silently sit on my glorious recliner and meditate most days to recuperate. 

I read a great book recently that really highlights many ways of dealing with your own energy and disallowing people to steal or hijack your energy for their own personal advantage. The book is “Dodging Energy Vampires.”

***The purpose of this blog is to realize that the stories in the brain are impulses from Spirit to help us heal, if we are willing to take the time to understand our own pain. Most of us want to avoid it. But, if you are tired of reliving your stories over and over again, try learning to become the observer of your mind.

GIVE IT A TRY.

With 31 years of experience and a new, great office in beautiful Fort Lauderdale, Hypnosis on Las Olas creates a clear path to health and prosperity for many people in South Florida. I will help put you on the road to peace of mind and keep you there, so that you may rewrite your prosperous story daily and learn how to avoid People Who Steal Your Energy, as in my book: “Your New Story, Your New Life.”

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