Into Your Palms

You have to be incredibly careful when you enter into new relationships. If you are the slightest bit anxious in your relationship orientation, you may end up in the palm of someone’s hand, which does not give you much “me” power. When you give and give for another, and relationship begins to expect from you, instead of creating balance, you enter into the inner palm of that relationship, which can easily squash you. 

Into Your Palms

How do we get out of the palm of someone’s hand and into a secure relationship? This question is what I’m going to explore in this blog.

Basically, how do you take yourself out of the palm of someone’s hand and into your own powerful hands without feeling guilt or anger? 

I love relationships when they are healthy. I’ve been through my share of unhealthy ones enough to know when someone is taking much more than he or she is giving. The give and take ratio is actually the easiest way to see if you are in someone else’s hands instead of in your own power.

Into Your Palms

After you recognize that you are in an unhealthy relationship, you have to decide that regaining your power is more important than the friendship. Once at the precipice, you must let go of guilt. 

Recently, I had to let go of a couple unhealthy relationships. I definitely felt guilt for months afterward. But, the key is, the guilt was an old story, too. Every narcissist that had been in my life had taught me to feel guilt: 

• “You are spiritual; you should be kinder.”
• “You help people everyday; why are you hurting me?’
• “I didn’t intend to hurt you.’

Well, guess what? I don’t think that narcissists would have acted any differently. We taught them that it was okay to act poorly and in an imbalanced way. The only direction to the other side is to un-teach them. That’s your goal. 

Don’t be mean. Just be strong. Distance yourself slowly at first. Then, when they ask why you are moving away, you have an opportunity to be strong and share your truth: “You’re taking too much of my time and energy without giving much back in return.”

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The purpose of this blog is to realize that the stories in the brain are impulses from Spirit to help us heal, if we are willing to take the time to understand our own pain. Most of us want to avoid it. But, if you are tired of reliving your stories over and over again, try learning to become the observer of your brain’s messages. Restore and Renew Your Mind. 

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