Your Will for Mine
Your Will for Mine

Your Will for Mine

Recently, I discovered how many times I have given over my will for that of another’s—someone I thought had more experience, knowledge, spirituality, authority, or strength. In total I had lost more power over the years than I care to admit to myself or to you. No mas!

Your Will for Mine

Your Will for Mine means giving up your authentic worth. As you get older you can justly say that your will or desire is strong enough to change the impermanance of the soul that would like you to believe that it isn’t big enough, connected enough, or prosperous enough to make the right choice. I am enough. 

Say this with me: “I am enough for this moment, to make the right decisions for my life, to choose my future.”

We’ve somewhere in the past decided we weren’t enough to succeed. We didn’t have the clout, the money, the acumen, the strength, the beauty.  When I look at success around me, I see real people overcoming obstacles to bring their visions to light. 

What I didn’t have in the past was the will to believe in ME. I admit, sometimes I did—for awhile, at least. But, most times when I needed all of me to believe in a project to get to my goal, I lost my edge. When I look back, I have to ask why. Then I must take a good hard look at the answer. Otherwise, I’ll continually almost get there, but not completely.

My Experience with Exchanging Someone Else’s Will for Mine

When you believe that the story you hear in your brain is you telling you your limits, you only believe that you are capable of re-enacting the anxious behavior of the past. You don’t need to look too far before you realize that the nasty Narrator in your mind who only knows the past has been sharing with your its contrary thoughts about your choice and making you doubt your own vision. 

Do I really need to listen to the story in my brain?

The answer is not at all equivocally no. The brain is a storage compartment of the past. It doesn’t know the future and certainly doesn’t know your power. Only you and God know your true power. If you are of the same spiritual belief as I am, you may believe that you were created in the image and by the very molecules of The Infinite! How can you NOT have the power within you? You are a child of the all powerful, all prosperous one. When will you stop doubting yourself and believe in your true nature?

The answer to that question is: When you realize you are enough, that God in you is enough. When you realize that your ideas are brilliant, your input is excellent, and that your point of view is what you need to make your project a success, you will be successful. 

You couldn’t exist in this world without the help of others. I get that. But, help is not giving up your intent for another’s intent. Help is support. Support has a limit.

The Solution.

Recently I hired a couple of therapists to help out with the load at my business, Hypnosis on Las Olas. Immediately, I wanted to let them know that their input was important, that their business is my business. However, just like a child testing its will against a parent, immediately, I began to get Will with a capital W from all sides, making me feel suffocated. I said to myself, if I don’t give these helpers what they want, they may leave. But, I gave in too much. In a matter of months, my business didn’t feel like mine anymore.

I had to purge and start over. We can’t give away our power. Never. 

Let’s talk about the difference between power and force.

Force has an equal and opposite reaction. Power eminates from within and expands when it needs to overcome all obstacles.  

I’m still learning about this, but I’m discovering with you how to make these hard choices without losing my power. Join me on this blog and let’s discover together.


The purpose of this blog is to realize that the stories in the brain are impulses from Spirit to help us heal, if we are willing to take the time to understand our own pain. Most of us want to avoid it. But, if you are tired of reliving your stories over and over again, try learning to become the observer of your mind. Restore and Renew Your Mind. Change from Your Will for Mine


With 31 years of experience and a new, great office in beautiful Fort Lauderdale, Hypnosis on Las Olas creates a clear path to health and prosperity for many people in South Florida. I will help put you on the road to peace of mind and keep you there, so that you may rewrite your prosperous story daily and learn the True Meaning of Healing: “Your New Story, Your New Life.”


When Healing Flows like Living Water through your being, you’ll notice you feel led and connected, sleep better, your mind stays affixed on positive things, and you’ll even want to cook better, healthier food to protect your body. Are you looking for help with anxiety or are you bored at home. 

Try this yoga practice below on YouTube I made just for this purpose or give me a call for a 10 minute consultation. I’d love to work through your stress at this time with you. 

The process is so simple, it doesn’t make sense that it could result in such a vast change in mind. You could do some seated yoga. I actually made 3 different yoga videos on YouTube you could go to now and enjoy how great you’ll feel if you spend just a little time getting your body free of stress. But, I can’t do it for you. This article about it can make you do it. You  must be a self-started at home, as well as work. Set your mind to a clear schedule of things to do. This would be a brilliant time to learn a new language or clean out the closets.



We give away our peace of mind every time we react emotionally to inevitable change. Peace is yours to keep, not give away. So, if you are not experiencing peace, it’s up to you to share why you are anxious with yourself by carrying on a self dialogue. Yes, that’s right. Question yourself. Work it out together with all the parts of your mind (the good, bad, and the ugly). These are the times when we will be closest to our loved ones and also have a great deal of alone time. Use it to your spiritual and physical advantage.

Some friendly reminders about Peace:

  • You are made in the image and by the grace of Peace. 
  • Peace doesn’t comprehend pandemonium. 
  • Peace of mind is gentle.
  • Peace does not judge you or others.
  • Peace promotes calm and love.

Peace Helps You Keep Your Retrospect in Check

Psychology Today says that “it’s not bad to have negative thoughts …

We just have to stop believing them!” (Change your unhealthy thought process to a positive connection with Hypnotherapy.) Don’t avoid the Ripple!

You will always find all the coaching, compassion, and peace of mind you need at Hypnosis on Las Olas with 31 years of experience. You can find what we do? and How we do it here… Getting Older with GraceExperiencing Narcissistic AbuseIronically, despite the popularity of the word, most people have never heard of the phrase “narcissistic abuse.”

Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. It is primarily inflicted by individuals who have either narcissistic personality disorder (NPD, which is characterized by a lack of empathy), or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD, also known as sociopaths or psychopaths), and is associated with the absence of a conscience.  Checking in with God

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The Physiology of Hypnotherapy:

By going into a subconscious, light sleep or trance, a hypnotists helps find the pathways connecting your outside stimulus to your negative thoughts (food, smoking, anxiety). The work begins in the frontal cortex of your brain

Disconnect the root cause (stress, relationship problems, no quality ME time) at the foot of the pathway (the place where our response to triggers happens) and build a healthy, new pathway to positive outcomes in your life—a new story for tomorrow.

Email me at or call/text at: 954-253-6493 now! 

I’d love to help you find peace, regain control over your life, and build a bridge to a positive future.

How 5 Simple Words Can Change Your Life, by Bo Sebastian, Hypnosis on Las Olas, owner for 32 years.

Clinical Hypnosis has been known to help these 145 problems: 

145 Ways Hypnotherapy Might Help You…

  • Abandonment
  • Addictions
  • Age Regression
  • Aggression
  • Agoraphobia
  • Anesthesia
  • Anger
  • Anxiety
  • Assertiveness
  • Assist Healing
  • Attitude Adjustment
  • Biofeedback
  • Breathing
  • Career Success
  • Change Habits
  • Panic Attacks
  • Pessimism
  • Phobias
  • Stage Fright
  • Stressful days
  • Study Habits
  • Weight Loss
  • Worry
  • Writers Block and much more
  • For the full list go to: here​
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