Bending Over Backwards

I have worked with many bending-over-backwards clients over the years who—with a big smile—call themselves “givers” or “caretakers.” They say caregiving serves them well, because they feel happy when they are giving. Suddenly, though, the formula isn’t working anymore. Anxiety and depression has overwhelmed them.

Bending Over Backwards

When you bend and bend over to take care of people who get used to sucking out your energy, eventually you break. I did. The clients I shared as an example at the beginning of this blog did. I’m sure many of you reading this bend far too much.

I am also fairly certain that the majority of these same people are not caregivers as much as they are empaths. Empaths feel another person’s vibrations. (Check out the 13 qualities to the right of this blog.)They are ultra-sensitive to what other’s need, making their super power caregiving.

Listen, Empaths, we are not meant to bend over and stretch past the constraints of our own lives to satisfy one needy person. Empaths are here on this Earth to help heal the entire Earth and the people hurting on it.

My Experience with Bending Over Backwards

I, too, spent the majority of my life leading with my inner yogi, backbending to take care of others, especially avoidant people. I’m not sure why. I am certainly a nice enough looking man with an average body. However, the “kind” of person I wanted to serve was the archetype of the person who didn’t like me when I was a child. In fact, this same time of muscle jock was mostly mean in public and somewhat nice when we were alone.

I noticed early that the more I helped each of these narcissists and was nice to them, the nicer they would treat me. Sometimes, even the straightest of straight guys would fall for me. I definitely knew how to manipulate men. Honestly, when I look back at those times, I feel shame.

I learned a lot about me in those moments, though. I would sometimes cry on my way home from someone’s home I thought I loved for a long period of time, but knew I wasn’t being loved back to the extent I needed to feel whole. I was certainly appreciated. But I attracted men who didn’t have the capacity to share heartfelt feelings. They were simply empty inside, but very willing to take all of the power I was willing to give. However, because they felt secure and nice in my arms, I kept the relationships moving forward… until I couldn’t anymore.

Give me a call to find out more about how Hypnosis and changing the story in your mind and actually turn your pain into a spiritual pathway to perfect peace.

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The purpose of this blog is to realize that the stories in the brain are impulses from Spirit to help us heal, if we are willing to take the time to understand our own pain. Most of us want to avoid it. But, if you are tired of reliving your stories over and over again, try learning to become the observer of your mind. Restore and Renew Your Mind. Finding out more about Bending Over Backwards.

GIVE IT A TRY.

With 31 years of experience and a new, great office in beautiful Fort Lauderdale, Hypnosis on Las Olas creates a clear path to health and prosperity for many people in South Florida. I will help put you on the road to peace of mind and keep you there, so that you may rewrite your prosperous story daily and learn the True Meaning of Healing: “Your New Story, Your New Life.”

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When Healing Flows like Living Water through your being, you’ll notice you feel led and connected, sleep better, your mind stays affixed on positive things, and you’ll even want to cook better, healthier food to protect your body. Are you looking for help with anxiety or are you bored at home.

Try this yoga practice below on YouTube I made just for this purpose or give me a call for a 10 minute consultation. I’d love to work through your stress at this time with you.

The process is so simple, it doesn’t make sense that it could result in such a vast change in mind. You could do some seated yoga. I actually made 3 different yoga videos on YouTube you could go to now and enjoy how great you’ll feel if you spend just a little time getting your body free of stress. But, I can’t do it for you. This article about it can make you do it. You must be a self-started at home, as well as work. Set your mind to a clear schedule of things to do. This would be a brilliant time to learn a new language or clean out the closets.

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DON’T FORGET ABOUT PEACE OF MIND

We give away our peace of mind every time we react emotionally to inevitable change. Peace is yours to keep, not give away. So, if you are not experiencing peace, it’s up to you to share why you are anxious with yourself by carrying on a self dialogue. Yes, that’s right. Question yourself. Work it out together with all the parts of your mind (the good, bad, and the ugly). These are the times when we will be closest to our loved ones and also have a great deal of alone time. Use it to your spiritual and physical advantage.

Some friendly reminders about Peace:

You are made in the image and by the grace of Peace.
Peace doesn’t comprehend pandemonium.
Peace of mind is gentle.
Peace does not judge you or others.
Peace promotes calm and love.

Peace Helps You Keep Your Retrospect in Check

Psychology Today says that “it’s not bad to have negative thoughts …

We just have to stop believing them!” (Change your unhealthy thought process to a positive connection with Hypnotherapy.) Don’t avoid the Ripple!

You will always find all the coaching, compassion, and peace of mind you need at Hypnosis on Las Olas with 31 years of experience. You can find what we do? and How we do it here… Getting Older with GraceExperiencing Narcissistic AbuseIronically, despite the popularity of the word, most people have never heard of the phrase “narcissistic abuse.”

Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. It is primarily inflicted by individuals who have either narcissistic personality disorder (NPD, which is characterized by a lack of empathy), or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD, also known as sociopaths or psychopaths), and is associated with the absence of a conscience. More than enough fish in the sea.

The Physiology of Hypnotherapy:

By going into a subconscious, light sleep or trance, a hypnotists helps find the pathways connecting your outside stimulus to your negative thoughts (food, smoking, anxiety). The work begins in the frontal cortex of your brain!

Disconnect the root cause (stress, relationship problems, no quality ME time) at the foot of the pathway (the place where our response to triggers happens) and build a healthy, new pathway to positive outcomes in your life—a new story for tomorrow.

Email me at bosebastian5@gmail.com or call/text at: 954-253-6493 now!

I’d love to help you find peace, regain control over your life, and build a bridge to a positive future.

How 5 Simple Words Can Change Your Life, by Bo Sebastian, Hypnosis on Las Olas, owner for 32 years.

Clinical Hypnosis has been known to help these 145 problems:

145 Ways Hypnotherapy Might Help You…

Abandonment
Addictions
Age Regression
Aggression
Agoraphobia
Anesthesia
Anger
Anxiety
Assertiveness
Assist Healing
Attitude Adjustment
Biofeedback
Breathing
Career Success

Change Habits
Panic Attacks
Pessimism
Phobias
Stage Fright
Stressful days
Study Habits
Weight Loss
Worry
Writers Block and much more
For the full list go to: here

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